A New Sense of Belonging: Donald
When KCB decided to open its doors in the form of a community center where everyone belongs, we envisioned becoming a lifeline for many, a place where peace resounded and burdens could be made light. Throughout our continued commitment to this dream, we met Donald, a resilient soul who found his way to KCB after experiencing the harsh realities of homelessness. Donald’s story is a testament to the transformative power of compassion and community.
Donald’s journey to KCB began in the shadow of the streets. He had been sleeping nearby, grappling with the overwhelming challenges of homelessness. "Drugs and alcohol weren’t the problem. Homelessness was," he recalls. The rising costs of rent had made it impossible for him to secure stable housing, forcing him to the streets of Bellflower. When his cousin, who had offered him a place to stay, was arrested during a raid that revealed a drug manufacturing operation, Donald found himself on the streets again, feeling lost and without a home.
In a stroke of divine providence, local sheriffs told Donald about KCB. "I didn’t have any self-esteem," he says, reflecting on his state when he first arrived. But from the moment he stepped through the doors of KCB, he felt something different. Unlike other help centers that seemed to push people through quickly, KCB treated him with respect and kindness. "Here, I feel respected. I feel like family," Donald shares. The genuine warmth and acceptance he encountered at KCB contrasted sharply with the treatment he had experienced elsewhere, making him feel truly seen and valued.
Donald’s life began to change as he immersed himself in the KCB community center. He obtained his ID, social security card, and even a bank card with the help of KCB staff like Valerie and Javvy, who continue to play crucial roles in his journey. "I feel like I have half my sanity now!" he exclaims, a testament to the impact KCB has had on his mental and emotional well-being.
For Donald, the concept of "belonging" transcends mere words. It is the feeling of being part of a family, of being loved and embraced without judgment. He describes KCB as his place of tranquility—a rare haven where he can breathe and find peace. When asked about a moment that stood out for Donald, he stated that it was the third time he visited us, when he was grieving the loss of his daughter. Javvy, a KCB staff member, met Donald outside, offering support and understanding. This gesture of kindness made Donald feel relaxed and at home, solidifying his sense of belonging.
The relationships Donald has built at KCB have been a cornerstone of his healing and growth. He has made new friends and found a community that values him for who he is. "I’m welcome somewhere and it feels good," he says, highlighting the authenticity and warmth that’s often hard to come by in today’s world. Javvy, in particular, has had a profound impact on Donald, especially during a dark time when Donald considered taking his own life. Javvy’s willingness to listen without judgment and compassion while talking through the situation, gave Donald the strength to choose life and continue his journey of recovery.
Donald is not only a recipient of kindness but also a giver. He finds joy in helping others, always looking for ways to give back. "I don’t give myself credit for nothing except giving back," he humbly states, embodying the spirit of selflessness that KCB inspires in its community members.
The challenges of homelessness are many—finding rest, maintaining hygiene, and securing basic necessities. Yet, KCB has been a beacon of hope for Donald, providing him with a place to rest, access to showers, food, and clothing. "Before I came here, I felt useless. But not anymore," he affirms. The support he has received at KCB has helped him regain a sense of purpose and dignity.
Looking to the future, Donald dreams of reuniting with his family in Wyoming. The sense of belonging he has found at KCB has given him hope and a vision for a better future. He is working diligently on getting his vital documents in order, a critical step towards achieving his goals.
For those considering involvement with KCB, Donald offers a heartfelt message: "Gifts come and go. But a handshake, smiles, and open arms do so much for people." He emphasizes the importance of supporting KCB, noting that while they are not in it for the money, they do need to pay the rent to continue their vital work.
Donald's story is a powerful reminder that hope and transformation are possible, even in the darkest of times. His final thoughts resonate with anyone seeking to make a difference: "Whoever comes here, there is hope. Just give them a chance, cause they’ll give you one." KCB is not just a community center; it is a place where lives are changed, and hope is restored, one person at a time.
